The Weeks Leading to Marriage: What You Should Prepare For

A wedding is an essential event in a couple’s life. Once it’s time to tie the knot at the altar officially, the matrimonial ceremony comes with a lot of preparation such as securing a venue, finishing the guestlist and finding the right wedding cake.

If you’re going a little bit crazy right now with the wedding planning, here are some items to double check on your to-do list to see if you’ve got the important things covered.

Securing a venue

The trick to figuring out the venue is in dealing with three factors: the theme of the wedding, your approximate count on the guest list, and your budget. The first thing you must address of course is the budget, limiting your choices with this factor in mind can help trim down your options. The next is dealing with your venue’s theme. More and more contemporary weddings occur outside the church as some couples are comfortable to have it done in a park, at a gazebo, or at a beachside resort. Knowing what your theme is can help a lot in zooming in on the right choice for your special day.

Picking out the menu

The menu can be a lot trickier than you might think. Together with your wedding’s theme, the list needs to be consistent and able to cater to a wide variety of your attendees. Having one dish of each of the meats (fish, pork, beef, and chicken) is an excellent way to start while having more selections for appetisers and dessert could make your wedding menu more appetising.

Besides your main course, your wedding cake is of utmost priority. Common favourites are of course vanilla or chocolate, but you can spice things up by ordering a lime cake to add a summer citrus feel to the event or double down by adding berries to your standard chocolate and vanilla combination.

Having each other’s ‘farewell party’

Thankfully enough you don’t have to plan this one on your own, if at all. The bridesmaids and the groomsmen are in charge of organising the essential pre-wedding party known as the bachelor and bachelorette party. It can range from a simple night out with friends shared with some food and alcohol to more inspired and themed events.

From renting a party bus to hiring strippers, stag parties can be pretty wild and spontaneous. For hen parties, women are big fans of throwing extravagant parties that sometimes end up being bigger than the wedding day itself. Besides the occasional inclusion of wine and alcohol, the night is filled with adventurous activities and events that are wilder than whatever you might think of with your imagination. Alternative themed parties such as life painting are offered by services like to those that want a different take on the bride’s side of the celebration. Though the send-off might be different for the two parties, it’s still about having a good time with close friends and relatives.